I don't know how I'm going to say this without sounding incredibly bitchy, but stop relying on me. 

I can't deal with everyone's problems all the time.  I have to deal with my own...and thats hard enough without everyone else's piled on top.  How can I grow as a person when all of my problems get buried underneath of everyone else's?  better yet, how can you, if you're not fixing anything yourself?

Call me selfish, call me a bitch, but I don't care.  I'm sorry, but I have to deal with my own stuff.  And if that means I have to distance myself from you a little, then that will have to happen. I'm sorry.